I think it's possible that Jack Ass might be looking for a couch in his parents basement soon. Work with me here (foreshadowing use of the term work, lol).
(Briefly, my daughter Genea was adopted by us from a disrupted adoption. The "father" of that family, now divorced, has moved in across the street from my house. We got an Order of Protection against him saying his living there was emotional child abuse. Here are a few posts for more detailed background of the hell we have dealt with in this situation. The day I found out, and what happened next, then going to court. . BTW, I swear we don't have stuff like this going on in our lives normally! We like boring!)
When Skank and Jack met, he was employed at a decent job. Jack was fired however, because Skank called him so often to come and take care of her kids. She would be "sick", and as he said, someone had to help her and take care of those kids. So, he lost his job because he called off so often to take care of Skank's kids.
I'm thinking he got unemployment. I'm thinking it was probably for 6 months and now it is done. He is certainly not working because he is never gone from that house unless for short cigarette runs.
Now, no self respecting skank is going to let some able bodied man live off of her disability payments. Right? I mean, won't the other skanks kick her out of the club for that sort of thing? Take away her tanning card and hair spray?
I have been getting inklings that Jack is trying to get some clarification on our Order of Protection. The judge sent us a letter in one instance, and a phone call came in to me from a trusted source in another. I initially thought he was trying to get the term "child abuse" off of his record. I suspected he was getting jacked up (lol!) for jobs because of it showing on a background check. This would have been good news because of the above. If Jack can't find a job he is totally useless to Skank. Right?
Then, one day The Husband happened to get ticked off at the sight of Jack in his front yard. He may have elevated his voice and become highly insistent that Jack get his ass back inside that house. Jack did, but Skank came out to talk to The Husband. Defensive at first, she quickly and quietly asked The Husband to call her because she was getting worried. Worried that there was more to the story than she was getting. Worried about her children being around Jack if there was more that she did not know.
Hmmmm, I said to myself. The Husband wanted to be polite and call her like she asked, though he would just repeat what he told her at the time which was, this doesn't involve you Skank, and he was not going to discuss it with her, but there were things that had happened and Jack knows what they are. I told him, first of all, let this fester. Let her imagination run. In addition, I think she has Borderline Personality Disorder and there is one thing I have learned about that one, which is NEVER FEED THE BEAST!
*warning, massive use of profanity ahead. Scroll to the next asterik if you want to avoid it*
Sure enough, a few days later Skank called The Husband saying..... why haven't you called me, you said you had to tell me something! Once again, he wanted to be polite and call her back to which I said.....
FUCK NO! YOU are not going to call THAT SKANKENHO back and tell her ANYTHING that fucking bitch KNoW's who Jack is to Genea and LET that piss breath move into her house ANYWAY and NO IT IS NOT MY FUCKING RESPONSIBLITY TO MAKE THAT SEPTIC TANK SCUM LICKER FEEL BETTER ABOUT HER BLOODY DECISIONS! SHE GOT HER SCABBY DRUG SICK SELF INVOLVED WITH THAT SLIMDICK FUCKTARD MORON NOW SHE CAN SIT OVER THERE AND WONDER WHAT THE FUCK HE MIGHT HAVE DONE IT IS NOT! MY! PROBLEM! THE ONLY THING WE OWE HER IS TO DRAG HER BEHIND A SEMI TRUCK REAL! FUCKING! SLOW! UNTIL HER CRUSTY ORANGE FAKE TANNED SKIN SHREDS INTO THE ASPHALT AND DISAPPEARS.
So he said, okay.
*reasonably safe here to continue*
The Husband has been driving by and staring at Jack. Today, I shit you not, Jack called and asked The Husband to stop glaring at him all the time. Then asked him to agree that he Jack had never hurt Genea. The Husband told him at least 3 times that he IS hurting Genea, that what happens in our house is our business but she is suffering for this. Then Jack tried in a circular sort of way to get The Husband to say that Jack never hurt Genea in the past. The Husband just said, you and I both know what is in those medical records and you know what happened because you were there. Then things sort of fell apart, there was yelling, and Jack hung up after saying The Husband had anger management issues (snort!). RIGHT! WE BOTH DO!
Does that sounds to anyone else like I think it sounds? Like Skank is looking for an excuse to throw him out and has latched onto the child abuse record? Common skank-club ploy, to say she has to put her children first and their safety is her world (snort!), I've seen it pulled out for convenience dozens of times.
I'm hoping it's not long now......Maybe, just maybe, the whole thing will self-combust.