Tuesday, March 4, 2014

The Stovepipe

If you have foster children, or "kids from hard places", The Stovepipe is a book that will give you insights you may not have considered.  Normally I like to give away review books, to sort of pay it forward but lemme tell ya', I wrestled with myself for several days this time.

The author, Bonnie Virag, was removed from the care of her mother at the age of four. Despite her young age, she vividly remembers and describes that day. Much time is spent in her head as she experiences confusion and sadness. The book takes us through life in various foster families, as she and her sisters grow up without roots.

The author is honest about circumstances in the various foster homes and doesn't point fingers or issue blame. She does not complain. Instead she openly describes, allowing the reader to draw their own conclusions.

The story takes place in Canada during the 40's and 50's. I was surprised to find out Canada was so progressive with social services. Case workers seemed well intentioned, but are not able to uncover the reality the girls were surviving. Almost without exception, the families who take in the children want something from them and the neglect they experience is contemptible. Having each other though, makes all the difference in the world.

So! Please don't think it must be a depressing read! I was surprised at how un- unhappy the book is. For sure there are events that might make the reader feel angry or disgusted.  However, the book is a story, a complete and rounded story of good, horrible, and all the in- between.

The Stovepipe


In spite of what I want to do, I'm giving my copy of the book away. Just enter yourself by commenting and I'll have a drawing on Sunday. Did I mentioned the book is signed? It's even signed by the author!



12 comments:

  1. I'd love to read this book as a future foster mom and applying CASA.

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  2. Ooo! Ooo! Pick me! Pick me! I promise I will pass it on when I finish.

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  3. Sounds like an interesting read.

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  4. I won't enter as our library has it. 'Just placed a hold on it【ツ】

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  5. I want to read it! (I'll even send you a US address for it if I win.) :>

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  6. i'd love to read that. just like I went, 'ooh, ooh! she wrote something new!' today when I saw your post!

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  7. I'd like to read it and I would pass it on when I finished it.

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  8. Well, I'd love to read it, too and I'll even promise to pass it on afterwards.

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  9. I work At a school with kids and this sounds like a great book to better understand and help them!

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  10. I am a high school special ed teacher, I'd love to read that book, I am planning to host a sibling group this summer from Ukraine, and fostering infants. I "accidentally" found your blog when looking up info on foreign and foster adoption. Ironically, my family comes from an alcoholic background, a lot of recovery now, and I find it very sad the situation with FAS children and the RAD dilemma.

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